Welcome to the March Carnival of Natural Parenting: Natural Parenting Top 10 Lists
This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Hobo Mama and Code Name: Mama. This month our participants have shared Top 10 lists on a wide variety of aspects of attachment parenting and natural living. Please read to the end to find a list of links to the other carnival participants.
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I swear everything we use is out to poison you. Look at the cosmetic database and you can see all the toxic chemicals in all the lotions, soaps, etc. that we spread all over our bodies every day. Also everything in our environment leaches toxic chemicals. Plastic water bottles leach BPA into our water, tin cans leach BPA into our food, our mattresses leach fire retardants into our skin, the cleaners we use leave residue all over our house, our carpets, our walls, our furniture, our clothes. They are all leaving trace toxins for us to absorb in our skin and breathe through our lungs.
While I’m sure that the minute amount from one single thing probably won’t hurt you, but when you add up all the small amounts from every single thing, I believe that we are slowly poisoning ourselves. So I do what I can, and sometimes I stress about it, and feel helpless, and other times I just figure that is the way things are. But these are the things I’ve done to help reduce the chemicals in our house
- Vinegar: Vinegar can be used (1 part vinegar – 1 part water) as a disenfectant on countertops, bathrooms, and floors. It can be used undiluted to wash windows. It can be put in your laundry as a fabric softener and sanitizer, and you can use it to cook with! So obviously it is non-toxic. My husband always complains about the smell, but honestly I can’t handle the smell of commercial cleaners. They make me sick. So, I think you just get used to it, and the smell dissipates pretty fast.
- Baking Soda – Baking soda works great when you really need to scrub. It also does a great job absorbing moisture and odors when set out. I sprinkle it on the carpet when one of the children have an accident, and vacuum it up when it dries.
- Plunger – This is one item I discovered that I haven’t seen on any (or maybe many) green cleaning lists and really is the inspiration of this list. If your sink (bathroom or kitchen) is clogged with mold or hair use your plunger to unclog it. It works much better than any chemical concoction you can pour down the drain (but you can pour some vinegar down there too after you are done) and is completely safe.
- Laundry Brush – Another useful tool for cleaning bathroom drains is a dryer brush. I found one at the store that was advertised for cleaning out the lint in your dryer (it's got a small brush on a long twistable handle). I shove this down the drain and find it works great to prevent clogging.
- Biokleen Diswasher Soap – This is what I use for cleaning dishes. It works well. It is supposedly safe. I also use it to fill up the soap dispensers for washing hands.
- Castille Soap – Another general purpose soap that works well for hand soap dispensers and bubble bath, and general purpose cleaning. Bronners is the brand that is most easily found. Their labels have bizarre, preachy, carrying on, but the soap is simple.
- Baking soda and Castille Soap – Mix these two together and you get a real good scrubby paste to get tough stuff clean.
- Old cloth diapers – I have a bunch of old green mountain prefolds (the best prefolds for actual diapering) and they are awesome rags to use for mopping the floor. They get damp, but not too wet. I just get them wet and use a squirt bottle with vinegar and scrub away.
- No dryer sheets – Dryer sheets coat your laundry “in something” so that they aren’t staticy. Floyd has sensitive skin so I just stopped using dryer sheets one day, and sometimes my clothes get static, but not that often. When we got a new dryer it said that as long as you don’t dry your clothes more than they need to, they shouldn’t get static cling. You can get wool or plastic dryer balls, but honestly I don't think you really need anything.
- Uhhh did I say vinegar? The stuff is magical. J
Note: I have had a hard time finding a laundry soap that works really well. Sometimes our fleece clothes are still smelly. Actually I have used Allens Naturally and it does work great, but at $50 for a gallon (with shipping), it is quite expensive. I’ve tried/use soap nuts, Seventh Generation and Biokleen, but none of them have been that great.
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Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:
- Attachment Parenting in the NICU — Erica at ChildOrganics shares some strategies to help you parent naturally in some unnatural circumstances.
- 10 Reasons to Choose Baby Led Weaning — Luschka from Diary of a First Child shares ten reasons to choose Baby Led Weaning when it comes to solids.
- Choosing to Breastfeed — From selfishness to self-giving, CatholicMommy at Working to be Worthy lists reasons why breast is best for her and her family.
- Ten Things I Wish I Knew About Before Little Man — In this reflective post, The ArstyMama discusses ten things she wishes she knew more about before the birth of her son, Little Man.
- 10 Things That Helped Me Become a Natural Mama — The Accidental Natural Mama counts down ten things that helped her find her moderately crunchy inner mama self.
- Top 10 Reasons to Breastfeed Your Toddler — Extended breast-feeder Kate Wicker of Momopoly makes her own top 10 list for why she loves nursing her 2-year-old.
- Top 10 Tips on Authentic Grandparenting — Mamapoekie of Authentic Parenting offers a list of tips to make the grandparent-parent-child relationship flow smoothly.
- Top Ten "Dad" Things — Liam at In The Now talks about his favourite ways to spend time with his children.
- Top 10 Natural Strategies for Conception (aka How to Get Pregnant!) — Despite facing plenty of health issues, Jessica Claire at Crunchy-Chewy Mama found her way to two first-try pregnancies thanks to these natural strategies.
- Top Ten Reasons Why Home Birth Rocks — Lucy at Dreaming Aloud shares her passion for birthing at home - the natural place for natural birth.
- Top 10 reasons why cloth nappies are fun — Tat at Cloth Nappies Are Fun shows how using cloth nappies can brighten up your day.
- Top Ten Ways to Be Present With Family — Amy at Innate Wholeness shares how to make the most of parenting and family life through being present.
- Top 10 Things In My Arsenal of Kitchen Witchy Mama Tricks. — Joni Rae at Tales of A Kitchen Witch shares with us the simple things she would never want to be missing from her cupboards.
- Top 10 ways I'm not very good at natural parenting (and why I keep trying anyway) — Jenny at Babyfingers shares the ways she is imperfect as a natural parent, and why she embraces natural parenting anyway.
- Top 10 Ways to Know You Are a Natural Parent — So what makes us "natural parents," anyway? A lighthearted look at the Top 10 Ways to Know You Are a Natural Parent by the editors and readers of Natural Parents Network.
- The Top 10 Things Every Natural Household (with children) Should Have — Amanda at Let's Take the Metro shares a list of the most common natural products and remedies she uses for health and cleaning.
- Top 10 books for raising loving, spiritual children — In her 'food for the soul' post, Mrs Green from Little Green Blog shares her favourite spiritual books. No matter what religion you practise, there's something for everyone!
- Top 10 Things No One Told Me About Natural Parenting — Adrienne at Mommying My Way explains that the best things about natural parenting are things she never expected.
- Top 10 Flower Essences for Families — Kim of Nature Baby Bloggings lists her pick of the top ten flower essence which can help ease families through the ups and downs of life.
- My Top Ten Parenting Tools — Amyables at Toddler In Tow names the top ten tools that have been helpful to her while learning to parent respectfully and successfully.
- Ten Ways Families Can Enjoy Nature (for free!) — Spring is nearly in the air, and Jenn at Monkey Butt Junction is dreaming of the fun and frugal ways that her family is going to get out and enjoy nature this summer.
- 10 Reasons We Unschool — Patti at Jazzy Mama explains why unschooling is the right choice for her family.
- Must Read: Natural Parenting Top Ten — Amy at Anktangle wants you to do a little reading! She shares her top ten favorite books to help parents prepare for pregnancy, birth, and parenting.
- Top 10 Breastfeeding Misconceptions — Sheila at A Gift Universe examines ten reasons women give for why they didn't breastfeed as long as they wanted, and shows how these obstacles can be overcome.
- Ten Reasons to Plan a Home Birth — Since a home birth can be an incredibly empowering experience, Leslie at Lights and Letters outlines ten reasons why you should plan to have your baby at home.
- Top Ten Books for Birth, Breastfeeding and Parenting — Megan at Just Me(gan) writes about the ten books that have helped her the most in her natural parenting journey.
- A Top Ten Letter To Me... — Kat at Loving {Almost} Every Moment writes herself a letter of reflections and bits of wisdom she would have liked to know as a new mama.
- Top Ten Mama Necessities Money Can't Buy — Buying baby gear is fun, but Emily at Crunchy(ish) Mama knows real parenting must-haves can't be bought in stores (or even on Amazon).
- Top 10 Books for a Natural Mum — Isil at Smiling like Sunshine talks about her Top 10 Books for a Natural Mum.
- Ten Great Spring Activities To Do With Preschoolers — Kellie at Our Mindful Life and her family have come up with a great list of activities to do together this spring.
- 10 Ways to Reuse Yogurt Containers — Acacia at Fingerpaint & Superheroes keeps the stacks of yogurt containers out of her recycling bin by reusing them in both practical and creative ways.
- Top Ten Ways To Have a Harmonious Home — Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama shares her natural parenting-inspired methods for maintaining a harmonious daily life with her toddler.
- 10 Natural Baby Items I Love — Charise at I Thought I Knew Mama shares product ideas to support your natural parenting.
- The Pandas' Top Five Crunch-osophies — Top five crunchy philosophies, as employed at the Panda Residence by Ana at Pandamoly.
- Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Son Intact — Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children has shared 10 reasons why you should leave your newborn son intact.
- Ten things everyone should know about unassisted homebirth — Olivia at Write About Birth shares practical tips for women considering an unassisted homebirth and debunks some common myths
- 10 Most Popular Ways To Treat Cloth Diaper Stains — Chante at My Natural Motherhood Journey gives ten easy tips to make your diapers like new.
- 10 Lessons in 1 Year — Abbie at Farmer's Daughter shares 10 parenting lessons that she has learned throughout her first year of motherhood.
- Top 10 Ways to Get Breastfeeding Off To a Good Start — Sheryl at Little Snowflakes shares 10 effective ways to ensure breastfeeding gets off to a good start.
- Top 10 Ways to Avoid a Time-Out — If you are uncomfortable using time-outs in an attempt to control your child's behavior, try one of these gentler alternatives. Dionna at Code Name: Mama shares her Top 10 Ways to Avoid a Time-Out.
- My Top 10 Parenting Scriptures — Dulce de leche is learning to integrate faith and parenting. Whether it is breastfeeding, babywearing, comforting her children, or gentle discipline, she finds that the Bible has beautiful passages to encourage her on her journey.
- Natural Cleaning Ideas - Top 10 — Laura at Laura's Blog lists the ways she keeps her house clean and clear of chemicals.
- My Top Ten (plus two) Life Altering and Growth Inspiring Books — A top ten list of books from MJ at Wander Wonder Discover that changed her life as an individual, a parent, and an earth dweller.
- Top 10 Ways to Use Natural Parenting for Children with Special Needs — Danielle at Mommy Makes Cents feeds the needs of her family and special needs child through the use of Natural Parenting.
- Ten Fundamentals — Seonaid at The Practical Dilettante gets philosophical with a list of the fundamentals that drive her natural parenting.
- 10 reasons why I chose breast over bottles — Becky at Old New Legacy writes a quick list of why she chose breast over bottles.
- Top Ten Natural Tools for the Work of Play — Lori at Beneath the Rowan Tree offers insight into 10 natural toys that will span the early years (and save you money).
- 10 differences between pregnancy and parenting in Japan and the US — Megan at Ichigo Means Strawberry gives her impressions about differences in pregnancy and parenting in Japan and the US.
- Natural Parenting Benny & Bex Style — Pecky at Benny and Bex explains why Natural Parenting principles work best for her boys.
- Top 10 Reasons to Co-Sleep — 10 practical, emotional, and completely selfish reasons to co-sleep and share a family bed from Lily, aka Witch Mom.
- My Top Ten New Mommy Moments — Melissa at The New Mommy Files recounts the ten most memorable moments of her daughter's first year.
- Top Ten Things Every Breastfeeding Mother Needs to Know — Kristen at Adventures in Mommyhood believes knowledge is power and wants all moms to be well informed.
- Top 10 Nursing Positions / Situations — Momma Jorje uses her 5½ years of nursing experience to share her Top 10 Nursing Positions/Situations. She includes some adorable photos of her youngest daughter at the breast.
- Ten Top Ways to Connect Kids with Nature — Terri from Child at the Nature Isle offers 10 ways to immerse ourselves in the natural world and develop a love affair with the Earth.
- Top 10 Slacker Ways to Natural Parent — Guavalicious is happy to show you how to parent naturally the slacker way.
- Simply what it looks like — Andrea!!! from Ella-Bean & Co. offers a glimpse into natural parenting through the eyes of mama and babe.
- Top Ten Reasons Why Natural Parenting Dads Are So Attractive — Nada at miniMOMist sure digs her husband, but it's not just his good looks -- it's his parenting!
- 10 Family Systems and Routines That Work for Us — See what routines, organizational systems, and parenting approaches work for Kristin at Intrepid Murmurings to help avoid conflict and maintain sanity in a family with three young children.
- Top 10 reasons to choose midwifery care — Lauren at Hobo Mama lists the features that drew her to midwives' care for pregnancy and birth.
- 10 Ways to Cloth Diaper on a Budget — Michelle at The Parent Vortex shares her best thrifty cloth diapering tips.
- Ten Reasons it Felt Sew Good To Make My Own Play Food — Brittany at Mama's Felt Cafe lists her 10 (OK, 11) favorite reasons to grab a needle and start sewing your own felt play toys.
- Top10 Ways to Spark Interest, Learn, and Have Fun With Everyday Tasks! — Bethy at Bounce Me to the Moon gives you her top 10 ways of incorporating fun and lessons into everyday tasks and chores.
- Postpartum Gift Ideas — Alicia at I Found My Feet suggests a top 10 list of gifts for mother's after giving birth.
- My Top Ten Shows Worthy Of Screen Time — Tree at Mom Grooves shares her top ten list of shows that she believes are positive, educational, kind, joyful, and a nice way to share some downtime with your children.
- The Top 10 Ways to Succeed as an Working Attachment Parent — That Mama Gretchen shares tried and true ways to succeed with attachment parenting even when working away from home during the day.
- Top Ten Books for Natural Parenting — Pregnancy, herbs, cooking, and healthcare the ten books Asha at Meta Mom the most.
- Preparing for a Hospital VBAC: My Top 10 — Thomasin at Propson Palingenesis shares 10 ways she's preparing for her upcoming hospital VBAC.
- Top Ten New Mom Survival Tools — Wolfmother shares her most beloved motherhood survival tools at Fabulous Mama Chronicles.
- Top 10 Montessori Principles for Natural Learning — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now gives her top 10 list of Montessori principles parents can use to encourage their children s natural learning.
- Going Granola — Tashmica from The Mother Flippin' Blog describes the 10 ways that natural parenting sneaked up on her. She never expected to go all granola on the world.
- Step Away From the Amazon List — Stefanie at Very, Very Fine wishes she hadn't bought so much useless stuff.
What a great list! I'm constantly looking up products on the cosmetics database before buying them--it's a great tool to have in your back pocket. We use a lot of vinegar, too!
ReplyDeleteThank you for these recommendations! Very helpful!
ReplyDeleteCool ideas! I am a fellow vinegar devotee, and you just reminded me to sprinkle some baking soda on my carpet before vacuuming. I keep meaning to do that. I do use both in the laundry and for cleaning.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I'm glad I'm not the only one who uses gentle dish soap as liquid hand soap! I had the hardest time finding any hand soap that wasn't antibacterial, and finally realized dish soap doesn't in fact give me dishpan hands.
I'm really going to have to try tossing the dryer sheets; I was afraid my clothes (esp. jeans & towels) would be too crunchy-stiff without, but no?
We've been using Ecos brand laundry detergent recently, because Costco had a huge (of course) bottle and so far so good. I don't use very much, either.
Hi, I'm new here, but I just wanted to add my two cents. I love vinegar too! I just wanted to let you know that I bought some wool dryer balls and I really like them! I add some essential oil so they still give clothes that dryer sheet smell. Also, I've been using Hope Suds (you can buy it online, a family makes it to help adoptive parents) and its all natural and I love it!
ReplyDeleteso... Vinegar!
ReplyDeleteI really need to jump into the vinegar party.
Thanks for the reminders.
For baking soda on accidents - do you need to scrub? I'd love to have more natural carpet cleaners!
ReplyDeleteDionna - We have thick carpet so accidents kind of sit on top. I take a prefold diaper and mop it up, then just sprinkle baking soda on it and vacuum it up when dry. It seems to work. It doesn't smell afterwards. I do clean the carpets about every other month as well.
ReplyDeleteDid you ever try making laundry detergent? I think we talked about it once at MOMS club 2 Green day. It works really well for us and reduces the static problem too, it seems (except towels, sweats). Or, are some of the ingredients not really that "good." Sarah
ReplyDeleteWhat are the ingredients Sarah? I've tried some washing soda, borax, and vinegar mixes, but not with any real recipe--I've just thrown them in the washer when I've ran out of laundry detergent. It's the fleece clothing that sometimes comes out smelly. I also want to say that I miss the MOM's club group down there. :(
ReplyDeleteIt's horrible when you can just walk in the grocery store and smell the cleaning aisle, makes my nose itch! This is an excellent list. I also use peroxide with the vinegar in our house, a spray bottle for each. They work really well together.
ReplyDeleteWe also like soap nuts for in the dishwasher. I haven't tried the Biokleen yet. Thank you!
It's not as basic as vinegar, but I love ecos for a laundry detergent. We have an HE washer and a gallon lasts forever.
ReplyDeleteLove this! We buy vinegar in double gallon packs at Costco and we really go through them, for so many things.
ReplyDeleteast year for Earth Day my daughters preschool had a "make your own cleaners" day and I came home with two concoctions that I use A LOT now. One was a spray bottle with vinegar/water/tea tree oil and the other is a scrub with liquid castile soap/baking soda/glycerin/lavendar/tea tree oil. LOVE THEM! And love that the kids can use them too, without worry.
I need to look into hand soap options -- with three little kids I am washing my hands all day long and most hand soaps or dish soaps make my hands reeeeeealy dry.
Great list! I'm a lover of vinegar too :)
ReplyDeleteHave you tried adding some baking soda to your laundry to help with the smell?
ReplyDeleteMy husband smokes and my mother (I do laundry at her place) has asked that I add baking soda to our loads to keep her washer from smelling like smoke. It has, apparently, worked!
It might do the trick for you, too! :-)